پیش¬بینی رضایت¬مندی از ازدواج بر مبنای تجربیات ناگوار کودکی، رفتارهای دلبستگی، الگوهای تبادل و ادراک از ازدواج والدین در زوجین
محورهای موضوعی : تخصصیاحمدرضا کیانی 1 * , محمود محمدی رازی 2
1 - استادیار دانشگاه محقق اردبیلی
2 - دانشگاه محقق اردبیلی
کلید واژه: رضایتمندی از ازدواج, تجربیات ناگوار کودکی, دلبستگی, الگو های تبادل و ادراک,
چکیده مقاله :
هدف: هدف از این پژوهش پیش بینی رضایت مندی از ازدواج بر مبنای تجربیات ناگوار کودکی، رفتارهای دلبستگی، الگوهای تبادل و ادراک از ازدواج والدین در زوجین بود. روش شناسی پژوهش: روش این پژوهش توصیفی از نوع همبستگی بود. ابزار های این پژوهش شامل: تجربیات ناگوار کودکیACEs، رفتارهای دلبستگی، ادراک ازدواج والدین، رضایت از ازدواج و پرسشنامۀ فرم کوتاه الگوهای ارتباطی، که بر روی تعداد 400 آزمودنی(200 زوج) در شهر بجنورد انتخاب شده بودند اجرا گردید و با استفاده از نرم افزار SPSS مورد تجزیه تحلیل قرار گرفت، به دلیل اینکه جامعه ازتعداد بالایی برخوردار بوده و اطلاعاتی از تمامی این افراد در دست نبود، از نمونه گیری خوشه ای چند مرحله ای استفاده گردید. یافته ها: یافته ها نشان داد که ادراک فرد از ازدواج والدین و ادراک از ازدواج خود و همچنین رضایتمندی از ازدواج معناداری و مثبت بودن رابطه را نشان می دهد. ادراک فرد از ازدواج خود با دلبستگی رابطه مثبت و معناداری وجود داشته، همچنین رابطه رویداد های ناگوار کودکی با ادراک از ازدواج خود رابطه منفی و معنا داری وجود داشته است و در نهایت رابطه ادراک از ازدواج خود و الگو های تبادل نیز نشانگر وجود رابطه منفی و معنادار است. نتیجه گیری: از این پژوهش می توان چنین نتیجه گرفت که تجربیات ناگوار کودکی، رفتارهای دلبستگی، الگوهای تبادل و ادراک از ازدواج والدینپیش بین های خوبی در رضایتمندی از ازدواج فرد می باشند.
The purpose of this study was to predict marital satisfaction based on adverse childhood experiences, attachment behaviors, exchange patterns, and perceptions of parental marriage in couples. This was a descriptive correlational study. The tools of this study were ACEs childhood adverse experiences, attachment behaviours, parental marriage perception, marital satisfaction, and a short communication form questionnaire which was administered to 400 subjects (200 couples) in Bojnourd city using SPSS software. Because the population was large and no information was available from all of these individuals, multi-stage cluster sampling was used. Results: Findings showed that one's perception of parental marriage and perception of one's own marriage as well as one's satisfaction with marriage was significant and positive. There was a significant and positive relationship between one's perception of marriage and attachment, as well as a negative and significant relationship between childhood adversity and one's own perception of marriage, and finally, the relationship between perceptions of marriage and exchange patterns showed a negative and meaningful relationship. Conclusion: It can be concluded from this study that adverse childhood experiences, attachment behaviors, exchange patterns, and perceptions of parental marriage are good predictors of marital satisfaction.
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